A 90-year-old Chevy Chase man spent months making masks. In return he got a birthday parade.
“They need masks,” he said. “Why couldn’t I make them?”
Although Willkens had no experience with a machine, he had always been surrounded by sewing. His wife of 67 years, Marie, had been a home economics teacher and often made garments for their children. She died three years ago.
“Right up until the end, she was sewing,” Willkens said.
Diane got him acquainted with a machine and together they looked up a guide to mask-making. Despite his inexperience, and his being left-handed on a standard machine, Willkens finished his first mask two days after his kitchen table announcement. By the end of the week he found a rhythm, looking comfortable with the machine and invigorated by his new hobby.
Soon, it took over his days. He spent the entirety of this spring at the sewing machine, starting work after breakfast and going until dinner. Diane estimates her father spent the final months of his 89th year working 10 hours a day.
“He loves to have a mission,” she said. “He’s very dedicated, he doesn’t like to be idle and he thinks everyone needs to have a purpose.”
In that time, Willkens has more than 300 masks. Most of them have gone to Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, which has been accepting drop-off deliveries of PPE. Willkens said making those deliveries feels good but doesn’t make his work special. It doesn’t feel like an act of charity. It just feels right.
“These masks for me were just putting something in the box,” Willkens said. “I didn’t want to sit around here doing nothing.”
Before long, summer had arrived and with it his 90th birthday. Originally he had planned to travel to Tennessee to see some of his 14 great-grandchildren. But as the national numbers of covid-19 cases and deaths continued to rise, he canceled those plans.
“I sorely miss seeing those children,” Willkens said.
Thinking of ways to make the big day special, Diane remembered the drive-by birthday parades her neighbors held for their two young children.
“We would just stand outside and watch and cry,” she said. “They were so beautiful, it’s a beautiful idea.”
Her friend posted on a local email list, asking for anybody who was free on July 25 and wanted to provide joy. They were to gather at a nearby community center and form a surprise birthday parade for Willkens. Diane also contacted the Montgomery County Police Department. Her daughter, Casey, got word to the Bethesda-Chevy Chase Rescue Squad.
On Saturday, all of Willkens’s children were gathered wearing matching shirts that read “Aged to Perfection” with a picture of his face on it. They talked and celebrated, eventually shifting the gathering in the front lawn. Diane went to the community center to check on the parade.
“I honestly thought they’d send one [police] car,” Diane said. “They sent eight.”
The squad cars, lights flashing and sirens sounding, were joined by several rescue vehicles and more than 30 vehicles of friends, neighbors and strangers. Surrounded by his children, Willkens watched the parade go by, his arms waving and tears in his eyes.
“It was unbelievable,” Willkens said. “All of a sudden here comes this parade out of the clear blue sky. Just amazing.”
For a man who had spent the past four months trying to serve his community, the parade functioned both as a celebration and a thank you. To Diane, it confirmed her belief that “if you give joy, you get joy.” To Willkens, it was simpler.
“It means that people care,” he said. “In spite of all the animosity and the things going on … people still care about people.”