Carolyn Hax: Should you break up with a boyfriend you care about but don’t love?

Hi, Carolyn: I have been dating a very sweet man for a little over a year. He is kind, a good listener and accepts me for who I am, but it has always felt like there is something missing. I kept deciding to wait and see if greater intimacy would blossom. It hasn’t. I know love is an action and a choice, and I do care about him a great deal, but I just don’t feel like I love him.