Carolyn Hax: If relatives hate being parents, is it right to offer to raise their kids?

Dear Carolyn: My brother and his wife love their kids, and yet everything I see suggests they hate being parents. “Rachel” complains incessantly about things that are very normal, and makes dramatic social media posts about how hard her life is as a mom. She used to post crying selfies about it, but I think a friend told her it was a bad look. She has a career she is very good at, and I think it’s possible she was meant to focus on that instead. My brother is a good dad but similarly full of complaints.