Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend wants too much contact when they’re apart

We’ve just been struggling with communication over text. He wants more, and I want less! We both travel frequently for our jobs, and when we’re apart, he wants to be in daily contact: He wants to hear what I’m up to, he wants pictures, he wants to feel emotionally connected to me, even if just over text. More than 24-48 hours without speaking on a work trip starts to feel like “too long,” but for me that feels perfectly fine.